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mollymaguire  

Blessings...

Wishes & Hopes that everyone in need, struggling, & facing life's many challenges, are able to find the resolve, comfort & security they are in such desperate need of... Tough times these days... Blessings to all of those out there with whom are suffering like I am~ Keep the faith, don't lose faith. That is one of the biggest things I have learned in my very long & tough struggle. Easier said than done, at times, but I know that if you hold on to your faith, & keep believing, things WILL turn around!
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whippet  

Aidpage Open Letter: Lack of / Inadequate Dental Care

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Rick Perry, Governor of Texas;
US Senators from Texas: John Cornyn, Kay Bailey Hutchison;
US Representatives from Texas: Al Green, Blake Farenthold, Charles A. Gonzalez, Chet Edwards, Eddie Bernice Johnson, Francisco R. Canseco, Gene Green, Henry Cuellar, Jeb Hensarling, Joe Barton, John Abney Culberson, John R. Carter, K. Michael Conaway, Kay Granger, Kenny Marchant, Kevin Brady, Lamar Smith, Lloyd Doggett, Louie Gohmert, Mac Thornberry, Michael C. Burgess, Michael T. McCaul, Pete Olson, Pete Sessions, Ralph M. Hall, Randy Neugebauer, Ron Paul, Ruben Hinojosa, Sam Johnson, Sheila Jackson Lee, Silvestre Reyes, Ted Poe;
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I am writing to you about a matter that is of great significance in the United States but is not greatly appreciated.  The matter is the lack of dental care in the United States.  Without appropriate care and without access to dentists people are suffering, mentally, emotionally, socially, physically and spiritually. 

There are people in the hiring lines and even people that are employed that are suffering due to lack of adequate care or no care.  You may tell yourself that you are so evolved that you would hire someone with an obvious need for dental care.  You may tell yourself that you would have sympathy for someone that you work with or that you employ that suffers from inadequate care or care that was inappropriate and that caused harm to the person.  However, I dare you to even admit to me that you have done so.   

In addition to the fact that there is inadequate care or no care dentists are one of the most unregulated group amongst the "medical," profession.  To try a dental malpractice lawsuit costs on the average of $80,000.  The average recovery is $30,000.  In their case, for the vast majority, there is no honor amongst theives.  There is a movement towards having dentistry become a specialty in the medical schools, i.e. periodontal medicine.  And this is as it should be since an unhealthy mouth can cause so many other health issues.  Additionally, they should be held to the same standards as are medical doctors.

I personally know what it was like to have my mouth, my facial nerves, my ability to eat and speak, my life and my finances destroyed by a handful of dentists.  I put myself through a BA in Economics, an MBA and a JD and have a law license.  I ended up in excrutriating pain, can barely eat, have difficulty talking and my problems are yet resolved. And people start to shun you as though you have become mentally ill until perhaps you find one of the  honest dentists about whom I speak.  An honest dentist will set you free from being blamed about being a malcontent even though they may not be able to help you. Oh and yes these were reputable dentists that caused the damage and then so carefully covered up their malpractice.  So you see, you are all educated, but don't ever think that it won't happen to you or one of your family members.  Next time you see an unemployed person standing with so many of the unemployed looking for a job and they have obvious dental issues, I dare you to hire them and set them free..........I dare you.     

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Post Open Letter to your Elected Representatives

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yazmin123  

dont know what to do

hi in january i got sick it lasted months in april my children father the man i was suppose to marry left, lost my job, i do not have heat or hot water and i'm behind on my house payments. The children father married someone else and left me stuggling. Now he filed for joint custody. I don't have no funds to get anything for my children for christmas i feel like i'm stuck and i can't get out of this bad luck. All I want is for my children to have a good christmas and to forget all the problems we are having. My son is 7 and my daughter is 10 and they are so excited that christmas is coming they even wrote santa a list. I don't want to tell them they may not be christmas for who knows an angel may cross my path and help me.
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Suffering

   Out of suffering has emerged the strongest souls,The most massive characters are seared with scars, Suffering hurts. Pain is unpleasant. Persecution is undesirable. And still we know that positive effects are forged in the fire and flame of suffering.
   Suffering will perfect us. There is a medical term, "to set a fracture, to mend, to make right, to restore." Our suffering will complete us ands mature us, and make us a better person.
   Suffering will establish us. It will make us steadfast and as solid has granite! Suffering can cause us to be as tough has steel that has been tempered in the fire.
  Suffering will strengthen us. It is suffering that conditions us and equips us with enough strength to go on.
    Suffering will settle us. It is through our trials that we discover the the real truth in which life is founded. When we suffer we are driven to faith, and the Lord is waiting to strengthen us and go through each trial with us.

1 Peter 5:10-11 , ----------
(10) But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered for a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you.
(11) To Him be the glory and the dominion forever and ever, Amen

   Through these verses we are assured that we will make it through our suffering. . It tells us that our suffering is brief and that God will enable us to get through it.
   God's grace is wonderful. It is sufficient, always all that we need, and always all that we need it to be.
   Christ has justifying grace for all believers, illuminating grace for every seeker, comforting grace for the bereaved, strengthening grace for the weak, sanctifying grace for the unholy, and dying grace for the end of the journey.
    Bring your needs to the Lord. Give Him your struggles, your burdens, your cares. Discover the grace of God that truly and perfectly extends itself to each and every sorrow and trial. Allow God to strengthen you in spite of the suffering, and through the suffering.
  May the Lord bless you, fill you with peace, meet your needs, and carry you through your struggles.

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Lo-Lo  

The Paradox of Life and Suffering from Aspire the New Woman of Color Study Bible by L. Wooden

Sufferings covers a wide spectrum of circumstances.  A woman's life is inextricably tied to suffering, make it impossible to live without the experience.  Someone else's suffering may not be the same as yours, but you share a common bond through the mutual feelings suffering produces.  Suffering may often be characterized as an experience of desolation, an emptiness, a barrenness, an aloneness.  Suffering may take the form of an experience of separation from God, from other people and even from engagement in living.  Suffering is often an experience of desperation--  a longing for life as we once knew it--often accompained by the acknowledgment and understanding that life will, in fact, never be quite the same.  Suffering even in the lesser degrees, could be termed "life threatenting".  It threatens our souls, our minds and our hearts.  The resulting disappointment and disillusionment can posion our thoughts and feelings, threatening our ability to live an aboundant life.

When we suffer, we tend to become dishearted as we search for understanding.  We question and cry out in despair, only to discover a self we may not want to recognize-- an angry, hateful, vengeful self, but a true self nonetheless.  In addition, we are likely to encounter a weak humbled, needy, dependent, longing aspect of our self.  All the while in and though our suffering, we discover a self who understands, perhaps for the first time, that without God there is no life.

Faith is the thread that maintains the balance between our life as a whole and our suffering.  In our suffering, faith becomes the hinge to the door of life, the vein that carries life to our soul.  Our affliction comes as a test of our profession of faith in God through Christ Jesus.  And with it comes a unique opportunity for us to glorify God.

My Personal Comment:

This pertains to me from the beginning to the end.  I suffer alot from pain and it does causes your life to take a drastic change in a negative and hurtful way.  It makes me deseparte enough to constantly research for answers and for cures.  It is only by my faith and trust in God that i am here today and able to deal with this 24 hours a day.

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km1111  

About km1111

I lost my husband of 16 years last month.  My children and I lost our home on June 1st we have beening staying with a family since then. Today we need to moved out we were only allow to stay until the end of the month.  I have applied for every job I can.  I only had one interview that turned out to be a scam.  I am out of money and out of gas for my vehicle we will have enough food for at least a week or two.  I have no where to go and the shelters in my area are full.  I need help but I have no to help me I am so stressed and I do not know what to do.  If any one can please help with any thing a hotel room or gas for my vehicle anything would greatly be appreciated. 

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gummymum  

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soulight  

I Have Not Been Here for a Long Time

My surgery last November has caused 3 more major health conditions that have knocked me back for a while.  I am going to try and catch up , but it will be very slow. My links page needs to be re-done , so that is the first priority. That and replying to personal messages. I will , as I said , be pacing myself very slowly , so please be patient. I truly do care about how other people are trying to survive in this world. I know personally what pain and suffering are.

soulight

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bittersweet  

About bittersweet

Two months ago I made the decision to no longer work in the 21+ industry. It was difficult choice to make. I went from making minimun 500 a week to making 0 a week. Co workers urged me not to leave and to do what makes sense but even then I knew I was at a breaking point in my life. Clients would call and call, telling me they miss me and they would do anything to get me back. I held my foot down as that's in my past and I'm done. My my ex coworkers and managers would tell me about all the money I was missing out on and how clients were requesting me. But I stood my ground with no. Then my car gets repossessed, my utilities get disconncted and my rent is past due. So here I am sitting the dark, cold without transportation wondering where I would live next. Through I all I refuse to go back because I know my life is better than that. So no I can't get my car back but I need help paying my rent and utilities before it's entirely too late and I'm also searching for a job.

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IronRapp  

About IronRapp

I'm a 31 year old husband and father of 2 kids, 8 year old girl and 6 year old boy.  Had a major operation back in May and am currently on Medical Leave from my job.

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BeCool  

About BeCool

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mom e of 4  

do you need help paying rent or mortgage

**************  3rd  time posting**********DOES THE MONEY PROBLEMS AND PAST DUE BILLS HAVE YOU STRESSED OUT? I AM APART OF A LADIES SOCIAL GROUP CALLED THE WOMEN WITHIN AND WE WOULD LIKE TO DONATE $3000.00 TO PAY THE RENT OR MORTGAGE FOR 3 FAMILES IN NEED FOR 1 MONTH. PLEASE TELL US YOUR STORY, THE 3 FAMILIES WILL BE SELECTED AND POSTED ON FRIDAY FEB 06 2009. WE WOULD LIKE TO HELP EVERYONE. WE PLAN TO DO THIS 4 TIMES A YEAR SO IF YOUR FAMILY IS NOT SELECTED THIS TIME MAYBE WE COULD HELP IN JUNE.  WE WILL REPLY TO EVERYONE WIN OR LOSE TO ASSURE YOU WE ARE READING YOU REPLIES .... GOD BLESS YOU IN YOUR TIME OF NEED

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Jeremiah27  

About Jeremiah27

I sat down at this hotel computer, (that i'm not even a guest at) to check my listing on craigslist for work.

i'll be homeless if i don't get some help!

I am a arborist/landscape designer by trade. I have had no work since 0ct 14th. that was $100. job several weeks before that was the last one. I have looked for work, i havent found anyone hiring. I have two boys and a girl. we are behind on car and truck payments, insureance,rent its all due. I am 27 and in good health , I don't drink/smoke/or do any drugs. I am honest and have always cared deeply for those in need. I am a volenteer at a soup kitchen. I have never passed by anyone on the side of the road that needed help. Infact there have been times when i've taken the long way home during a snow storm just to see whom i could help. people get stuck alot in michigan during tie winter. I am a christian in need of work. I hope and pray for your kindness.

I am at a loss for words, I just hope there is a person out there that could help my family financially. Certainly not a hand out, I am looking for work. I have 15years experience in the tree business. i am a amazing landscaper. Ponds waterfalls custom landscapes, retaining walls.  If its money your able to help with by all means let me work for it.    My name is jeremiah.   

 

 well < things have really turned around. The phone is ringing again. I'm making money and i just want to thank you all for your prayers. No one gave money but i did get work and thats all i really wanted. thank you. Note to all who suffer all you have to do is BELIEVE

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sufficientgrace2  

About sufficientgrace2

 i need a sponsor to my gospel music which will have a global impact to the glory of God in Jesus name Amen.
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find funds now  

About find funds now

Hello!

I am glad you could join me today on my page !

I am going to offer a variety of pages to help you find sources to get the help you need.

I am also going to share my story in hopes it helps you cope with this ever changing world! 

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Fibro Viv  

Are you Credible?

Hello Everyone,

I have not posted for awhile. I thought I would just write a few words about credibility. I started off with my title: Are you Credible?

Credibility makes or breaks an individual. You must be honest and upfront about everything in your life. I have tried to be honest with my viewers to help them understand how difficult it is to deal with a chronic illness. This is why I share my own experience, tools, and information.

In order to start feeling good about yourself you have to learn to be honest and upfront about your illness. I know some people have had to deal with criticism, judgment and sometime even loose their jobs. In the end those that are judging them will have to deal with their actions.

It is difficult to accept we are ill, but we cannot start the healing process until we are honest about how we feel. Yes, I have heard many woman state their spouse is not listening or yells at them. Try the following:

1. Go get brochures about your illness and place it in front of them, tell them to read them.

2. Ask them, why were we married? I am suffering from an illness that many people do not understand, please take the time to try and understand what I am dealing with. If my own family does not support me, what am I to do?

3. Do not get angry, sincerity and openness while informing them lays out a solid foundation of credibility.
If your own family does not believe you, seek out friends, doctors, etc.

4. Do not make any promises you cannot keep. If you cannot do the laundry, clean the house, etc., then just let them know. Eventually they will understand and hopefully they will start helping you out.

I just want people to understand that the healing process starts with you acknowledging your illness and sharing that information with your loved ones.

I hope and pray this post has helped someone today.

Fibro Viv

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jack041251  

About jack041251

Suffering from an addiction. This website has a lot of great resources and treatment centers.

http://www.treatmentcenters.org

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msthang73  

About msthang73

I am a single mother that's disabled. Living with friends and relatives. I'm trying to make ends meet monthly but it's getting harder and harder. I'm also dealing with my son having several health problems. I just want a chance to purchase a home for my son and myself so that we no longer have to live with others.

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please help me..  

please help me, i suffer in pain 24/7, need money badly, GOD Bless you..

please help me,

suffer in pain 24/7...

need money badly...

can't work, comp and ssa are dragging their feet...

who knows but GOD when i will get my benefits?

anything you can send will be nice...

thank you and GOD Bless you...

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please help me..  

please help me..

have been tortured by comp and ssa...

for years now and as usual they drag their feet and are constantly trying to dissuade and defraud me of any help...

sad and depressed...

GOD knows i have tried to do all i can...

please help me to survive...

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